My mind is a landmine., You trigger it and get ready to be blasted. But is it right? No. I have an internal sensor which checks for potential, upcoming, triggers. That sensor deactivates the whole bomb when trigger happens. So, instead blast I become cool as cucumber when get triggered. I am actively learning how to do it in all possible situations. When multiple kinds of triggers coming from multiple kinds of sources. (See I used the sources., Which means my triggers are not just limited to humans LOL)
My mind is a mine., Not like the Gold Mines, Some normal mines where you digg deeper and rarely find something useful to compensate the time and effort you used to digg.
Sometimes cherrishing my so-called accomplishments personally puts a smile on my face. Makes me able to fight trying to sleep bit better. But yet., It is tired to recall same events again and again and put a boredom? Feeling proud of myself is a term which I take it very logically and tagged with time.
Validity to feel proud about something expires overnight. Next today there is no point to feel proud about yesterday’s achievement.
I am in this mind set., Then how can i feel proud about someone else’s accomplishment? They are their achievement. (Do I recall Lenord’s mother?) I can say congrats to them. I can not feel proud about their myself., Thats dishonest and not credible. I did NOT moved a single finger to get that achievement to happen. Then how can I cheat by sharing and feeling proudness?
But it is impractical to feel proud daily when you are in such honest mindset to know the right to feel proud.
Thats why mass of people are being fan of something and easily feeling proud when their beloved sports person / team scores something. They associate themselves with the player/team’s achivement without doing nothing. Thats easy. Thats why they feel happy and sad by personally doing nothing but yet reflect what their player/team feels.
Human mind may like this fakery , easy, quick happiness or sad?
Back to my mind., So It is impractical to accomplish/achieve something in a daily basis if I set the expiry date for feeling proudness to 24 hours. So my mind endup feeling worthless, and feel as I did not accomplished anything at all for recent times. Thats bad for mind. Thats a made-up upsetness
What is the destination?
What is that “thing” that makes “feel” accomplished / successful / worthy?
I always want to “build” something that is being used by millions of people.
I always wanted to uplift my credentials to be recognized in my “field”
I always wanted to feel “healthy” physically.
I always wanted to feel calm, peaceful, relaxed, easy, normal.
So the wants are the drives to feel successful. Wants are the ones that are missing.
When did I felt “fullfilled” .. Lets recall those days.
I felt good whenever I recorded an audio for Expired Visam channel. Every single day I completed a recording I felt good.
I felt good when ever my personal trainer made me to workout.
I felt good when ever I see Jack, Born cute is his achievement. Not mine lol.
I felt good when ever I comeup with a new story line to direct a movie.
I felt good when ever appreciate the hardwork i put to get things done in business.
I felt good when ever I cropped plants, helped plants to grow firmly.
I felt good when ever I bathed Jack.
I felt good when ever I see a good question in Expired Visam comment section.
I felt good when ever someone spends time to sit and talk to me casually without looking at their mobile, Without having a time bomb set to end the talk and leave. I dont recall this ever happened. Very rarely people take time to hangout with me. Its due to their circle of life.
When ever I come out of my distraction OCD loop of activities, I felt good. speaking of which., I am uninstalling Chess.com app (Rank 600) and 8 Ball Pool (Rank 72) app in my mobile now.
Uninstalled.
So there are things I can do to make myself feel accomplished. feel good and go to sleep peacefully.
Record an audio/video for Expired Visam channel
Do take care of Jack
Build or Scale existing products to reach million people.
Write all of my 5 different movie ideas in a notebook (Please Kart pls write them in a notebook)
I like to play Billiards in 8 ft table, Kick the sand bag, play piano, Craft statues in oil clay.. But not spending time for any.. Thats very bad.
I think, plan, procrastinate a DOZEN things and do 0.5 things and feel demotivated. So ….
I read One Thing, Subtle Art of Not giving the fuck, Atomic Habits, Thanks to my friend PaimPozhil for recommending those books to stay focused. But yes he did recommended this legandery masterpiece blog post during my college time. I forgot the title, i forgot the author, i forgot the site.. Lets try….
I just recalled a legendary blog post during Kevin Rose’s Digg.com era. I just recalled that blogger conducted an event called “Oktoberfest” to do some SEO conference.. and searching for it I found the ancient names Matt Cutts, Niel Patel and John Chow … John Chow had the post about SEOBlackHat., Yes that blog was named SEOBlackHat and some catchy name.. SEOblackhat.com has a bluehost placeholder page. So went to waybackmachine aka archive.org and searched for seoblackhat.com and after 20 minutes found the legendary blog post. DO IT FUCKING NOW.
https://web.archive.org/web/20150315054353/http://seoblackhat.com/2007/01/29/do-it-fucking-now/
Uploading the full post here as a screenshot image, In case waybackmachine dies due to lack of donations. I tried to donate $20 today. Their forms are long and google pay does not work as Im from India. Will try donate again.
Do it Fucking Now.
January 29th, 2007
QuadsZilla
When it comes to building your business, there are 4 words that should be echoing in your mind throughout the day; they are “Do it Fucking Now.”
We’re not talking about checking your stats or chatting with your buddies on Instant Messenger. We’re not talking about checking your RSS reader incessantly throughout the day. And we’re not talking about surfing MySpace, Digg, Fark, Television or some other time waister.
We’re talking about developing your online properties. We’re talking about creating new campaigns to drive links and revenue. When we say “Do it Fucking Now”, we’re talking about those tasks that you keep putting off which, when completed, will start putting more money in the bank.
Do it Fucking Now.
Don’t wait. Don’t procrastinate. The winners in this world are not the ones who find the greatest excuses to put off doing what they know will make them more money. The winners are the ones that prioritize and seize the day.
Create a list of action items to make sure your important tasks get accomplished. Every project you’re working on should be in action. If you’re not moving, you’re standing still. Your next step towards making money must not be “something I’ll take care of maybe sometime next week.” If it’s going to help make you money: Do it Fucking Now.
Some of you may think that you don’t need the “fucking” in “do it fucking now”. You do. You need that impact, that force, that call to action and mostly, that kick in the ass to get you moving. Otherwise, you’ll end up another loser that had a great idea a long time ago but never did anything about it. Dreamers don’t make money. Doers make money. And doers “Do it Fucking Now.”
This passage is truer today than when it was written more than 400 years ago:
There is a tide in the affairs of men
Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;
Omitted, all the voyage of their life
Is bound in shallows and in miseries.
On such a full sea are we now afloat;
And we must take the current when it serves,
Or lose the ventures before us.– William Shakespeare, Julias Ceasar
Try it. Next time you have an inclining to procrastinate on a task that you know will make you money, say those magic words out loud and get inspired!
Do it Fucking Now.
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